The Je ne sais quoi

A Guide To A Stylish Plus Size Life

Shirt  | Jeans-old (similar) | Bag | Sunglasses | Shoes

Suddenly finding yourself wearing a size 10 shoe in sixth grade makes shoe shopping a gift and a curse. Having your feet grow to a size 11 as an adult makes it even harder. My feet have always been one of my arch nemesis. From an early age I wished that my feet would just stop growing. Of course they never did.

Over the years shoe shopping has gotten way better, but occasionally I have a hard time finding that perfect fit. This year I was searching for the perfect red boot that didn't have too high of a heel, was the perfect shade of red and had the right toe shape. So when Shoes of Prey approached me about designing my own shoe, I jumped all over the chance.

Having the ability to go in and customize my own shoe is priceless. I spent so much time browsing the inspirational shoe photos, looking at what other people created. Then I finally decided to stick with my guns and make a red boot. Then I created exactly what I spent months looking for. A red boot with a lower chunky heel! You also so get the chance to customize even the smallest detail of your show, the sole, lining and the zipper! I was completely blown away that I could put my name inside of my boot! As a Southern Belle I love any opportunity to have something monogramed (LOL).

If you haven't checked out Shoes of Prey yet you really should. If you have small feet, wide feet or long feet they have the right fit for you! My boots aren't just pretty, they are extremely comfortable. You can head over to shop for the latest offerings from Shoes of Prey here

I hope everyone is doing well!

Thank you for reading! And a huge thank you to Shoes of Prey for partnering with me on this post!


Jacket | Skirt | T-Shirt | Shoes(Old) - Similar and Similar | Sunnies- Similar

Happy Valentine's Day my Loves! I'm another year into this single girls Valentine's Day and I've been looking forward to it! I love Valentine's Day! It's my absolute favorite holiday and you can miss me with all of the arguments on the commercialization of the holiday. I got that memo and I reject it. Last year I gave you a bunch of fun things that Single Girls can do to celebrate this holiday, and those are still fun things to do. This year I have decided to indulge in a week of things that bring me joy and love. Here are a few of those things:

 1. Laugh and talk with my Girlfriends
 2. Wearing red
 3. Watching the Winter Olympics with my Parents
 4. Re-reading my favorite book (The Alchemist)
 5. Having my favorite meal (sushi)
 6. Drinking my favorite cocktail
 7. Getting a facial, a mani and a pedi
 8. Buying myself something new and impractical
 9. Donating money to a worthy cause
10. Going to movies
11. Celebrating Black Panther release (cause it's totally a holiday)
12. Going to the art museum
13. Taking a long nap
14. Go to Church

That's just a few of them. I hope you have a wonderful day, no week filled with joy and love. We are all deserving of joy and love! I also need to just remind you that if you're feeling lonely on this day and any day please reach out to me! I will be happy to listen to you and tell you how wonderfully amazing you are!

Thank you for reading! I love you!


Jacket | Pants | Shoes | Bag - Similar  | Sunnies- Love these and these 

Happy New Year Everyone!!! I hope you had a fabulous holiday season! As I was looking through my blog one of the things I hardly ever talk about is work wear. Which is odd, since I spend most of my time at work. So I want to introduce to you 9 to 5 To Stay Alive a series that I will post to discuss work wear and any questions you have about it! Though my office is business casual there is still occasions when I have to dress up for different events. When I first started out in my career I wore suits and stockings daily and how quickly I realized that wasn't the life for me. My ever present need to represent my feelings through fashion always rears it's head no matter what.

This year I want to include a few more post on work wear. Honestly it can be hard to navigate through and easy to lose yourself in what you think is appropriate. Injecting your personal style into your work style isn't as hard as you might think. It can be as simple as wearing your favorite color, or your favorite shape of suit, or even your accessories.

If you follow me on Pinterest then you know I love a good suit. Suiting can be so powerful, but with the wrong cut and the wrong shape it can also be dowdy. When I saw this suit at Eloquii's headquarters back in November I knew it had to be mine. The shape of the sleeves, the easy fit of the pants it was too perfect to not add to my wardrobe. All of the styling possibilities of these two pieces went running through my mind!

So how do you feel about work wear? What is your style when it comes to what you wear to work? Do you have any questions on work wear?

Thank you for reading!


Jumpsuit | Blazer | Shoes | Earrings | Purse-Vintage | Sunnies- Similar (here and here)

This year my New Year's Eve is gonna be totally low-key. I honestly might even wear tennis shoes, since I'm still nursing this sprained foot. But if I wasn't this jumpsuit from Lane Bryant would be perfect for a night out on the town. First of all it's comfortable, the fit is amazing and it has pockets. All important requirements for a going out outfit. I looked at this jumpsuit online and kept going back and forth, but when fell in love when I tried it on in the store! Thank you to all of my IG followers who told me to buy it! LOL! I love y'all! The velvet detailing take this jumpsuit up a notch and made it different from my other jumpsuits. FYI I'm wearing a size 22, just in case you're buying it online.  I styled the jumpsuit by adding my velvet mules, blazer and these beautiful earrings I picked up at Loft.

Honestly I can not believe that we are at the end of another year. Everything has rushed by so fast. I sincerely want to say thank you to everyone who has continued to read my blog year after year! This year has been so amazing for me blog wise that I am totally inspired to push myself harder and harder  to develop this little corner of the Internet. I am thankful for everyone who has left me a comment, liked my pictures, commented and interacted with my in any way! I hope you have an amazing 2018! If there is anything you want to see here please don't hesitate to email me and let me know! I love interacting with y'all!

Thank you for reading! Love you all!


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